So I was on my way back from my sister’s place, after dropping off my nephew who’d come to visit me during their midterm. Okay, I had passed by a small gathering of Prophet Owuor’s people, hapo karibu na Kisumu ndogo. At first I didn’t give them attention, even though the worship was out of this world. They say “words speak to the heart, while songs speak to the soul”. But I did on my way back. Kunakuwaga na this jam that will start from nowhere around those areas and end at nowhere. I was kinda held up in the jam again, then I lowered my car windows to catch a hearing of what they were preaching.

You know what guys have been saying out here, men. I heard that they don’t preach[they just worship and celebrate, haha], and if they did, they’d be talking about their prophet. But meeen! I was shocked. A young lady was doing the preaching. She was about the age of our youngest. Twenty or twenty-four. I can’t vividly remember the verses, because I haven’t been a very regular Bible reader, hehe. So bear with me.
The two minutes I got stuck there, made me hear something that has kept me bothered till now.
She said that “the Lord has given all people time to repent, that is why he has taken long in coming back….. When he comes back, he will judge according to how you have disposed yourself to sin, and how you have caused others to sin…..” I couldn’t stand there for long, because those words cut my heart to pieces and the jam was now moving. I don’t know how long I was there, but all I remember is I didn’t hear her talk about their prophet, all I heard was repent for the Messiah is coming. Then how Jesus is gonna judge people meeen! It has been days now, but those words keep on echoing in my ears. I feel like I need to make my ways with Jesus. His coming felt so real to me this time around, waah!

About the dressing of their women, I have a first hand experience. My sister joined them in her third year, at the campus. You will be forgiven if you thought that her third year was the normal third year of the four years for undertaking a Bachelor of science in statistics. Nope! She had sustained reseats and retakes the previous year. Why? Because she had minimal time for studies, but had abundance for Sheree and lack of self-control even in classes. Party after party with devilish attires– call them fashion. I won’t mention our family’s church here, because it is a mainstream denomination. And our parents hold respectable positions there.

Back to my sister. She’d gotten into a certain group, should I say from Hell or what? A young lady from a honourable Christian family, with reputable and good cultured children. She is our fourth born in a family of six. One of our four girls. With me leading the pack. We came to know that our Laura [not her real name] was now smoker, alcoholic, keeping lesbian friends,party animal, defaulter of classes, disobedient, nude and pathetic dresser [when she is home, you’d want to cover your eyes whenever she is passing or sitting around. My dad complained till he did it no more. Mom on the other hand stopped her cursing and turned to public prayers for her daughter’s deliverance. It was real baad folks], loud speaker, amongst all other ills you can think of. Did I tell you that all these stuff begun in the second semester of her first year? Yes, it was then that she said that she cannot go to campus form home, because it was hectic commuting from our Buruburu house.

Our just retired dad and our soon to retire mom. Y’all know how hard it is to be in those ages. That chap is suffering from lifestyle diseases coupled by the absence of the trappings of ‘power’ and allowances that came with his small powerful position. All because of retirement. While my mom is not only suffering from lifestyle diseases, but with the fear of retiring three years early,not because of anything, except that she had lied in her registration for identity card. So that she could get a clerk job after form two exams. Then our Laura’s new acquired lifestyle added more miseries to their too much miseries. With the most being the Church family. Their respect was now punctured because of her.

She said that one day when she’d met some female students on her way to the arboretum to catch up with her gang before they were picked up for a party at one of their friend’s boyfriend’s birthday

They tried stopping her for a fellowship for quite a stride, till she finally gave in. Not because she wanted to listen to them, but because she wanted to give them a one serious free public lecture on stopping people on the way with their stupid evangelism. When she stopped, they all had reached. The three of them. All dressed up in their signature long coats, with neatly tied headscarves. No makeup (save for common facial care), or any artificial additions. Well trimmed girlish finger nails, with a ‘humble’ touch of perfume.

Their eyes were so innocent and concerned. They didn’t look at me with pity. Because if they did, like other evangelists did, I would have blocked them ASAP! They instead showed me concern, and care if not compassion. These are things that must not be spoken or done to an individual to hear it feel, they are heard or felt if they come from a genuine heart. So they begun by warm greetings, the asked if I’d give them a minute to share with me some ‘good news’ then they allow me proceed. I hadn’t planned for this, I wanted to bash them for stopping people who are on their errands for who knows what! One introduced the others, she looked mature in her young body. She had a certain confidence and aura that got made captivated. For the first time I was closer to a lady in this heavy clothes in a this godforsaken hot weather. She radiated an excellent beauty with an finite touch. This was beyond lusting at, all I could do is to surrender. Then sh begun talking to me about the good news.

“I wanted to talk to you about Jesus. He promised that he’d come back in John 14:1-3. And now that he’d talked about his coming back, it’s needless saying that there’s need for preparing to receive him. How do we then receive him? By repenting our sins and going back to holiness. He says that there’s no sin he can’t forgive. Apostle Paul was a certified murderer, but when he received Jesus, He forgave him and made him his special envoy. The Bible says that we also receive the same faith.” These words were not worth my time, so I decided to leave, then she asked me a question, “Do you know that his coming may happen after you are dead? What if you died in your sin yet he’d come and died for you, but because of the short pleasures of this world, you rejected him just like they did and killed him? Do you think he will be happy with you if you meet him after resurrection, because all will resurrect and face him in judgement? Will you face him and tell him to his face that he is not worthy of your time and life? Think about those questions my sister. The Lord Jesus loves you so much. Please love him too”. I continued with my journey that never ended at the arboretum. Instead I took another route to my room. Then parked a few clothes to home. I switched off my phones and shoved them in my bag till Monday morning. Good thing that I had no classes in the morning. I found many missed calls and messages from my friends, inquiring where I was or what had happened. I answered none.

Back at the apartment, I begun doing things differently. I broke all the alcoholic bottles and poured out the drinks. Threw away the cigarettes that I had. I don’t remember how I collected some of my stuffs and burned them. What I remember is that I couldn’t walk out, not because I didn’t want to, but because after I left those young preacher ladies, I felt naked, embarrassing to God, and pathetic in my ways. My roommate, who had been one of my party friend was shocked at this new phenomenon. She tried pestering me about what has caused all these. She thought it was from my family. What she didn’t know was that I met someone more than a family. Because when that young preacher(I can’t remember their names) talked to me, I felt like it was Him(Jesus) talking to me. I borrowed a course mate some monetary assistance, and luckily being in my side, she did grant my request. I went to Gikosh and bought some long dresses, long skirts and modest tops. It wasn’t easy, but I had to. Why? Because I felt naked in my initial dressing.

I begun joining the Repentance and Holiness Students fellowship in the evening, then on Sundays too. I stopped smoking and partying. How the desire for alcohol disappeared, I can’t explain. About them friends? I wanted to keep them, but they begun running away from me. I didn’t understand why. I thank God some of them are since gotten born again too.” Our Laura sent us a WhatsApp message, after we realised that she no longer called to demand for money from any of us. We just sent her so that she doesn’t be in need that can worsen the already worse situation.

Allow me submit to you that when our Laura came home at the end of the semester, we couldn’t believe our eyes! Our Laura was dressed up like those ladies of Dr Owuor’s church. You’d think that an angel resembling my sister dropped down from heaven. Everybody was shocked! Her coming coincided with our last born’s birthday. Thus everybody was at home. With some invited family and friends. We couldn’t believe our eyes pals. The shock didn’t allow anyone talk about what our eyes fed out minds and hearts, except for our birthday girl who couldn’t keep her mouth shut.

She greeted everybody,got into her room, and came out with other wondrous clothes. A beautiful maxi dress with a certain designer kind of blazer. She was a beautiful site to behold. Something must have happened to our Laura, that brought about this incredible change. Even though we had reservations for that church, the good that came with our sister joining them outdid our fears.

Raising Children Together: A Biblical Approach to Parenting in Marriage

Parenting is one of the most profound responsibilities and joys of married life. As parents, the decisions we make, the values we teach, and the love we give shape the future of our children and have a lasting impact on their lives. The way we raise our children influences not only their behavior and character but also their relationship with God and their role in the world.

In a world where family dynamics can be complex and parenting challenges abound, it’s essential for married couples to turn to biblical principles for guidance. The Bible offers wisdom, direction, and encouragement to help couples raise children in a way that honors God and builds strong, lasting families. Parenting is not an individual endeavor; it’s a joint venture that requires partnership, mutual support, and unity between spouses. In marriage, both partners play a vital role in nurturing and guiding their children, and God’s word offers invaluable insight into how this can be done effectively.

This article explores a biblical approach to raising children within the context of marriage. It examines the roles of both spouses in parenting, how to foster a Christian environment for children, and the essential principles of discipline, love, and communication. By adhering to these principles, couples can raise children who are grounded in faith, love, and a sense of purpose.

1. The Importance of Marriage in Parenting

Before we delve into the specifics of raising children, it’s crucial to understand the importance of marriage in parenting. Marriage is the foundation of the family, and a healthy, loving marriage provides the best environment for raising children. Children learn by observing the relationships around them, and the relationship between their parents sets a powerful example for how they will approach their own relationships in the future.

a. Marriage as God’s Design

The Bible teaches that marriage is God’s design for family life. In Genesis 2:24, God says, “For this reason, a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh.” Marriage was established to create a partnership between a husband and wife that reflects God’s love and purpose. As parents, this partnership is essential for raising children who will grow in a loving, nurturing, and spiritually grounded environment.

When a marriage is strong and unified, children benefit from the stability, security, and example set by their parents. A husband and wife who are committed to each other and to God’s principles can raise children who learn to respect authority, value relationships, and follow God’s plan for their lives.

b. Unity in Parenting

In marriage, unity is key to successful parenting. Proverbs 24:3-4 says, “By wisdom a house is built, and through understanding it is established; through knowledge its rooms are filled with rare and beautiful treasures.” Marriage is the first and most important form of teamwork for parents. The way a husband and wife work together, communicate, and make decisions in raising their children sends a powerful message. Unity doesn’t mean agreeing on everything, but it does mean being on the same page when it comes to major parenting principles.

Parents should strive to be in agreement about their values, discipline strategies, and goals for their children. This unified front provides consistency and stability, which children need to feel secure and guided. When parents work together, they also show their children the importance of cooperation and mutual respect, qualities that are essential in life.

2. Biblical Principles for Parenting in Marriage

The Bible provides a wealth of wisdom for parents who want to raise their children according to God’s will. There are several key biblical principles that can guide parents in their parenting journey. These principles not only help parents raise children with godly values but also help strengthen the marital relationship as they work together in raising the next generation.

a. The Role of Fathers and Mothers in Parenting

The Bible emphasizes the roles of both fathers and mothers in raising children. In Ephesians 6:4, Paul instructs fathers to “bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord.” Fathers are to be active, engaged leaders in the home, providing direction and guidance to their children. This involves teaching them about God, setting standards for behavior, and leading by example.

While fathers play a critical role in providing leadership, mothers also have an essential role in nurturing their children. Proverbs 31 describes the virtuous woman as one who manages her household with wisdom, kindness, and diligence. Mothers are often the emotional and spiritual heart of the home, guiding their children with love and compassion. Both parents bring unique gifts and strengths to the parenting process, and when they work together, they create a balanced and harmonious environment for their children to thrive.

b. Teaching Children the Word of God

A central focus of Christian parenting is teaching children about God and His Word. Deuteronomy 6:6-7 emphasizes the importance of passing down God’s commandments to the next generation: “These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up.” The Bible encourages parents to make God’s Word a central part of daily life. This can happen through formal teaching moments, but also in the natural rhythms of everyday life.

Marriage partners should prioritize discussing spiritual matters together and make teaching their children about God a family activity. Family devotions, prayer, and reading Scripture together can help children develop a personal relationship with God. In addition, parents should model Christian living through their actions, showing their children the importance of faith, forgiveness, and love.

c. Discipline and Correction

Discipline is an essential aspect of parenting, and the Bible offers guidance on how to discipline children in a way that reflects God’s love. In Proverbs 13:24, it says, “Whoever spares the rod hates their child, but the one who loves their child is careful to discipline them.” Discipline should not be harsh or punitive but loving and corrective. The purpose of discipline is to guide children toward righteousness and to help them understand the consequences of their actions.

Ephesians 6:4 also says, “Fathers, do not exasperate your children; instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord.” Discipline should be done in love, with the goal of teaching children the right way to live. Both parents should work together to create a consistent approach to discipline, ensuring that they communicate the values they want to instill in their children.

d. Modeling Christlike Behavior

One of the most powerful ways to raise children is by modeling Christlike behavior in marriage and in daily life. Children are highly observant and will often mirror the actions and attitudes of their parents. Therefore, it’s crucial for both spouses to live out their faith in practical ways.

In Philippians 2:3-4, Paul instructs Christians to “do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others.” In marriage, this humility and selflessness should be modeled in how parents treat one another. A marriage built on love, respect, and mutual submission provides children with a clear example of how to interact with others in a Christlike way.

e. Prayer as a Foundation for Parenting

Prayer is an essential tool in raising children. Through prayer, parents invite God into their parenting journey, seeking His wisdom, strength, and guidance. The Bible encourages parents to pray for their children, asking God to protect them, guide them, and help them grow in faith.

In James 1:5, it says, “If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach.” Parenting can be challenging, and there are many decisions to be made. Prayer allows parents to seek God’s wisdom and trust that He will lead them in the right direction. Couples should also pray together for their children, asking God to bless them and help them develop into the people He created them to be.

3. Building a Strong Christian Family Together

In addition to applying biblical principles to parenting, married couples should work together to build a strong Christian family. This means creating an environment where faith is central, love abounds, and respect is mutual. It also means being intentional about creating lasting memories and traditions that emphasize the importance of God in the family.

a. Establishing Family Traditions

Creating family traditions is one way to foster a sense of unity and strengthen family bonds. These traditions can be spiritual, such as celebrating holidays with a focus on Jesus, or they can be family activities that promote togetherness, such as weekly family nights, outings, or service projects. Traditions provide consistency and help children feel secure in the family unit.

b. Encouraging Open Communication

Open and honest communication is essential in both marriage and parenting. Parents should foster an environment where children feel safe expressing their thoughts, feelings, and concerns. This openness promotes trust and helps children develop healthy communication skills. Both spouses should model active listening and empathy, showing children that their opinions matter and that they are valued.

4. Conclusion

Raising children together in marriage is a profound responsibility, one that requires dedication, love, and a commitment to biblical principles. By following the teachings of the Bible, couples can create a strong, unified family that is rooted in faith and love. Parenting is a partnership, and when husbands and wives work together, they can raise children who know and love God, who understand the importance of love, respect, and forgiveness, and who are prepared to make a positive impact on the world.

Through teaching, discipline, prayer, and modeling Christlike behavior, couples can build a Christian home that provides a solid foundation for their children’s spiritual, emotional, and relational growth. With God’s guidance and wisdom, raising children together in marriage can be one of the most rewarding and fulfilling experiences of a lifetime.

To hit the nail on the head, every single individual knows God is supreme, eternal, and all-powerful Creator of the universe. He is understood to be one being in three persons: God the Father, God the Son (Jesus Christ), and God the Holy Spirit—a concept known as the Trinity. God is viewed as both transcendent (beyond the world) and immanent (present and active within the world).

To break the ice for you, God is as well, known of his faithfulness and across the bible domain, God has design to save a mankind that should rather live a life that pleases him….over time and time many men of cloth have appeared to the church landscape claiming to have come from God, but wait a moment, how can one coming from God look like? Behave like what, and what can he or she say or preach? In my experience of investigation in Christian conduct,way of living, and message being taught is absolutely contrary to the bible, why? Christians are often in a ‘out of the frying pan and into the fire’ kind of situation, by the way they conduct themselves as far as holiness is concerned…But in the bible, there is the promise of eternal life (heaven) and eternal judgement (hell), but how does God fulfill it to mankind? Does he do it only to a village or to whole nations of the earth?

In,Malachi 4:4-6
[4]“Remember the law of my servant Moses, the decrees and laws I gave him at Horeb for all Israel.
[5]“See, I will send the prophet Elijah to you before that great and dreadful day of the Lord comes.
[6]He will turn the hearts of the parents to their children, and the hearts of the children to their parents; or else I will come and strike the land with total destruction.”

From the above scripture, it is clear as crystal that God promised to send someone who will prepare his own people….I am much interested in verse six…now matters with Prophets come into play in there, A true prophet is typically understood as someone who is divinely chosen to deliver messages or teachings from a higher power, meaning the message of God, often associated with God(holiness )to guide people.

Prophets are considered to possess divine inspiration and wisdom, serving as a bridge between God and humanity. Therefore, the message a prophet speaks is a reported speech from God; it cannot be altered.

I’ve seen a number of Prophets across nations, but it seems to have been compromising to their salvation contrary to the bible, as the bible says Christians should be holy and Righteous. But why have some preachers of today preached a gospel of here and now? Allow politicians to throw stones at one another at the altar… Is the church a fighting zone or a place of worship? Even if the ball is on the christians court why allow sin in the church a number of cases reported a pastor caught in sexual sin and have impregnated a girl ..and at some point some spiritual leaders burning someone as a way of chasing demons that I never find in my research when I read bible, like this video published by citizen TV .

In many biblical instances, for example, Jesus Christ in Matthew 15:30, true prophets are associated with performing miracles or signs that authenticate their divine calling. These miracles serve to validate their messages and inspire faith in those they serve..miracles are not just miracle it is making impossible possible like a cripple globally known can’t walk…but in my research have several research and listenly keenly to prophet Dr OWUOR founder of ministry of repentance and Holiness church..He was sent by God, and since 2002, he hasn’t changed the message…REPENT AND PREPARE THE WAY THE MESSIAH IS COMING, for example in this video taken many years ago.

Can a devil ask someone to stop sin?… On many occasions, Prophet Dr. Owuor, when he makes prayers and decrees, invokes the eternal blood of Jesus.

No sooner does he make such an uncommon decree than a cripple walks, a phenomenon that has been verified by the most senior doctors to be true, as in this case.

Also, on many occasions, he comes live on air to pray for the church through JESUS IS LORD RADIO105.3 & 105.9FM,9FM, and miracles break out everywhere. For example, of a Muslim cripple called Omar walked without gaining contact.

But I am also really concerned with the message delivered,he preaches holiness and righteousness and turning away from sin…his message to the public is zero tolerance to apostasy that has failed many preachers that preach to please people, suit flesh, and now Christians dress like how unborn again does…But prophet Dr OWUOR has brought a message that if I was to choose religion I will choose his….women dress well, are humble in character, rebuke sin and pastors train well to be equipped with the Holy Spirit and provisions come from God….I saw a video clip on an interview on KBV Tv Prophet Dr OWUOR courageously laying down the real Gospel dated 1st Sep,2010

https://youtu.be/aMmpGtvp0JE?si=MZVyZyWg_l-HTrU7

What people say and what Prophet Dr OWUOR does is two different things….as earlier said, Prophet Dr OWUOR has been seen publicly rebuking sin globally and moving all across the world unlike

others periodically located and remain localized so called PROPHETS..if it was to make judges in court of justice all those that have accused Prophet Dr OWUOR has accused God because Prophet delivers God’s message which prophet Dr OWUOR has done over 20 yrs, that have attracted millions upon millions of saints .but also accusations is a testament of true Prophet…. True prophets often experience opposition, persecution, or disbelief. Despite this, they remain steadfast in their mission, demonstrating unwavering faith in their calling and in the truth they are conveying all this has happened to Prophet Dr OWUOR but he is moving on more therefore the said cult can 100% make people go to him…..

In Germany, he preached on clean garments that revelation 19:6-10 laid down as holy acts of the Christians as seen here

..where is the cult in warning the nation to repent? Where is the cult by raising known cripples? Where is the cult on something done publicly and going even to superpower countries and rebuking homosexuality that is now rampant…I have more to expose, but the Ministry of Repentance and Holiness church is not a cult, for indeed, every cloud has a silver lining. They have two YouTube channels for knowledge of power to the world, and those who accuse are only after online traffic likes and followers because their background in research is shipwrecked and they live a life of no knowledge of God….if this were to be sought out or given a chance, I will point my finger at Professional ethos of media users themselves as a cult.

To learn more about the ministry of Repentance and Holiness, check out the following links:

Website: Repent and prepare the way

http://www.repentandpreparetheway.org/
REPENTANCE CHANNEL YOUTUBE CHANNEL

https://www.youtube.com/user/repentancechannel

Repent and Prepare the Way

https://www.youtube.com/c/RepentPreparetheway